1. How would you define an incel?

InCel literaly stands for involuntary celibacy. If you have trouble finding intimate (not exclusively, but admittedly primarily sexual) partner for a prolonged period of time, you are an incel.

1. How old are you, and at what age did you discover you might be an incel?

I'm 28. I realized things might not go as I expected sometime around 19 - 20. Disclaimer: I have lost my virginity a few years ago, way late into my 20s, to a borderline bi-polar woman who, to my knowledge, has been incel before and since then. I was forced to end the relationship due to her growing unhealthy attachment and related mind-games.

1. Is it true that you worship Elliot Rodger?

I do not. Elliot acted out of frustration. Most people, even InCels, are fully capable to cope with the frustration of unsuccessfully putting in effort to attract partners, without resulting to violence. This place is one of the ways to cope. There will always be people who cannot handle frustration in general, and being InCel is just one of things that may cause frustration.

1. Do you hate women?

No. Women are just acting out their human needs. However, I do dislike women who follow their dualistic mating strategy. Providing sex to attractive males, and settling down with the unattractive ones willing to provide, when they have "had their fun" and want to settle down. I understand there may be biological reasons for this, but the same could be said about some other undesirable male behaviours men were "forced" by society to curtail, for benefit of the society as a whole. In other words, I am angry at the society which supports this behaviour, clearly beneficial primarily to women. And at the same time which shuns other similarly morally objectionable male behaviours, precisely because they are primarily beneficial to men.

1. Have you tried approaching women?

Not in PUA sense, no. I have tried to find a partner through social circles, as most people do. It all but one instance, described above, I was unsuccessful.

I now feel stuck in a no-win scenario: *Remain incel until women of my generation have had their fill *"Settle" - I hate that word - with woman who have dangerous and deep rooted psychological issues, and were therefore rejected by everyone else. *Work on my interpersonal skills, which is shunned by general society as developing abusive techniques to trick women into relationships and sex

1. Why do you hate "normies", and does that term refer to all people who aren't incel?

Normies reffers to everyone, but admittedly it is a strawman joke. The normies out there make fun of us, belittle us and humiliate any attempts at "getting better". They are the well adapted inhabitants of society which we could not adapt to, and they find it funny at best or creepy at worst.

1. What is a Chad?

A prototypical thug - bro - bully male. For some inexplicable reason attractive to women in their "best years"

1. What is a Stacy?

A promiscuous woman who tries to get one of the Chads throughout her "best years", only to settle for a less desirable man when it is clear to her she cannot have one of the Chads, and her biological clock started ticking.

1. Have you tried therapy?

No. I find myself in an occupation where any indication or medical record suggesting any kind of mental issues would be the end of my career.

I understand that this particular response may sound too much tinfoil for you, but it is something you will need to take my word for.

1. Would you say you're suicidal?

Yes, in a sense that suicide has crossed my mind. So far the amount of pain in my life has not reached the proverbial edge of the cup. Unless things go way worse, I am not in any danger of going through with it.

1. What do YOU think would help improve your situation?

Very good question. I have a few ideas, but nothing I know would guarantee success. Here are things that might make my life easier:

*PUA workshops becoming more mainstream. It is hard for not so well socially versed person to take course aimed at improving their social skills, when the course it self is considered to be "bad" by normies. *Re-introduction of societal pressures -- or norms as the polite normies like to call them -- which historically prevented serial monogamy and promiscuity in favor of long-term partner selection. *Hell, even society accepting that there are people like us, and we are not (all) out there to kill normies would help. You don't make fun of a disabled person. Why make fun of us?

1. Do you have friends?

Yes

1. What's your relationship with your parents?

My dad is very smart, somewhat eccentric and what would most people of this sub now call "beta". I would call our relationship good. Not close.

My mom is very neurotic, choleric and controlling. I suspect she is borderline narcissistic. Looking back, I feel like her main goal was to provide for me materially and not much else.

1. Did you consider a prostitute?

Yes, but didn't go through with it. While I do enjoy sex, I am primarily looking for a life partner.

Edit: formatting, wording, interpunction

Edit2: Speeches are for campaigning. Now is the time to read the user name.

Edit3: Seems like my replies do not show up. Have I been shadow-banned by our welcoming community?